Chatting with people on dates can be a lot of fun. By doing this, you’ll get to know more about the person. However, sexual desires are not on the list of topics that most people want to start talking about but would love to get into. So, if you have gone on a few dates with a person and want to get to know more about spicy topics, this is the blog for you! We’re helping you to take the conversation to the next level by giving you some of the hottest questions you can ask. Keep on reading and discover them all!
10 fun, flirty, intimate, and spicy questions to take a conversation to the next level!
Are you going on a date soon, and do you want some ways to get the conversation to a more intimate level, but don’t know what to say? Do you find it difficult to ask the right questions to make your partner think about what they will say next? Then don’t worry! We have listed 10 spicy and flirty questions for you to take the conversation further than normal topics!
Ask spicy questions about actions they’re willing to do
- “What is the sexiest dare you would be willing to do right now?”
- “How would you like to be teased?”
- “Are there certain things that I do that really get you turned on?”
Talk about sexual fantasies
- “What is your hottest sexual fantasy you have yet to try?”
- “Name some crazy places you’d like to have sex in your life”
- “Are there any needs or desires you have regarding sexual intimacy?”
- “While pleasuring yourself, do you think about something specific to reach your orgasm?”

Ask Questions about preferences
- “How long would a perfect fun session last for you?”
- “Are there any positions you prefer or would like to try out with me?”
- “If I were to blindfold you, what is one sexual thing you would like me to surprise you with?”
By using some of these questions during a conversation, you can learn a lot about the sexual preferences of a date, partner, or complete stranger you’re trying to hook up with. However, do keep in mind that everything has a place and a time and that sometimes you might need more build-up towards these types of conversations! Some might say a conversational foreplay before the spicy conversations!
Set the scene to make it more romantic!
Do you want to have a chance to take it even further after the conversation or maybe even try some of the answers given to your questions? Then, you have to make sure that the scene is set to be romantic and intimate. Yes, flirting in a bar might be fun initially. However, it might be difficult to keep the heat of the conversation up when someone spills beer all over your date!