Everyone knows that at the beginning of a relationship, most people experience the honeymoon phase. During this phase, most people love to go crazy and have wild, sexy adventures. However, as the relationship progresses, the honeymoon phase will fizzle out, and the wild events change into routines and may lead to sexual boredom. Experts recently found out that this boredom could be very dangerous for the relationship’s health. Keep on reading to discover everything about it.
Sexual boredom causes women to feel more unhappy
A study from the University of Minnesota surveyed over a thousand Portuguese women in long-term relationships about their happiness and sexual satisfaction. The results of the study showed that women who experienced sexual boredom were often also more unhappy in their relationships. The women who didn’t feel sexually bored were also generally more happy and satisfied in their relationships.
The study also showed that being attracted to or desiring someone outside of the relationship isn’t as bad as it might seem. However, if your partner is also experiencing sexual boredom, this might lead to a bigger problem. For most relationships, some of the reasons for adultery are sexual boredom or dissatisfaction and moments of weakness while being unhappy.
Tips to keep things fresh and avoid sexual boredom!
If you want to make sure you’re pleasing your partner and keeping her satisfied, then there are a few things you can do to keep the “freshness” during sex. We have listed some things you can use to keep your bedroom adventures fun!
Talk about preferences or things you’d like to try out
Over time, the sex can get boring, as most couples get into a routine and always go for the same positions. While this can still be pleasurable, it can be less exciting for either party. A tip to make this more comfortable for everyone involved is to make it romantic, maybe even crack open a bottle of wine. Then just talk without judging and really try to listen to each other or come up with ways to make these new fantasies come to life! After discussing these fantasies, you can try to implement them slowly and especially without judgment.
Use props and toys
Most men feel a little bit challenged when toys get introduced during sex. However, these toys can do things for the female’s pleasure that a man will never be able to do. So, instead of fighting the system, embrace it and maybe even find ways to tease your partner with toys while having fun. This can lead to more pleasurable experiences for your partner while you still get to do what you want!
Change the scene
One of the best things to do to keep things fresh is to try out new things in a new location. You don’t have to fly across the world if that isn’t within the possibilities. However, you might just want to book a hotel room in the next city to head to after a date to have some fun times with your partner!
