There are quite a lot of people who love to use toys or something else to level up their sex game. However, there are also ways for men to enjoy their fun sessions a bit more, and one of the most popular ways is Spanking! If you’re curious and want to try it out for yourself, then you’ve come to the right spot. We give you some tips so you can take it to the next level!
Introduce spanking in the bedroom: 5 tips that actually work!
If you’re trying to experiment and want to spank your girlfriend’s ass while in the bedroom, then you can’t just go in and do so. There are different ways to introduce this to her and make it a fun experience for both parties involved. Here are 5 tips that might help you get started.
Start outside of the bedroom
Spanking is not something you can only do in the bedroom. You can start by playfully teasing your partner by smacking her ass a little while you’re in the kitchen, or even teasing her while you’re in public. However, don’t make it a “fun” thing if you’re trying to turn it into something sexual. This way, you avoid her thinking that you’re just joking.
Introduce the topic in a sexy, playful way
If you’re serious about it and you really want to try it out in the bedroom, you have to get consent from your partner. Don’t just jump it on her by suddenly doing it out of the blue. We suggest that you introduce it by setting the mood and talking about it before actually trying. And if you play your cards right, you might head straight into the bedroom to try it out.
Try it out … Gently
Spanking your girl while having sex isn’t just slapping her ass as hard as you can. While a nice stinging pain could help achieve new types of orgasms, it can also become to much very quickly making her snap out of the sexual mood you’re in and want to stop.
So if you’re introducing it in the bedroom, make sure that you start nice and slow and warm her up for more. Then listen to her and look at her body language when you’re taking it up a notch.
Set Boundaries
If you’re planning on introducing whips or other things to spank your partner, then it is important that you guys talk about boundaries and safe words. This way, you can make sure that it is enjoyable for both of you.
Don’t be afraid to add other ways of pleasure
If spanking is more your thing and your partner allows you to have some extra fun within their boundaries, you might want to return the favor. One way you can help your partner is by introducing toys that are able to do things you’d never be able to do. Think about app-controlled stimulators or vibrators that stimulate 2 to 3 areas at once. They won’t compete with you, and you’ll make her experience a lot better, too!
Talk about it afterwards
While you’re still trying to figure the new spanking thing out, it is important that you and your partner talk about it often. For example, your partner might want you to go a bit further than she previously liked or she might want you to take a step back. Keep conversations open and talk openly about your fantasies, plans or other sexual desires you might have. But also make sure that you listen to her for feedback or to hear what experiments she wants to get into.
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