Recent data from the National Survey of Family Growth shows that sexual behavior over the past two decades has changed. While men are still reporting more sexual partners on average, there has been a slight change in the amount of sexual partners that women are reporting. If you’re interested in discovering how big these changes are and what is causing these shifts, then keep on reading!
Changing Trends in Reported Sexual Partners
A survey from the National Survey of Family Growth has shown that the reported partners vary widely between genders. Most women reported 2 to 4 sexual partners over their lifetime. Over the last few years, the average number of sexual partners for women went up from 3.8 to 4.3. However, men tend to report higher figures, with most of them reporting 10 or more partners. The most common answer was 15 sexual partners for men aged 25-44! However, the average for men has declined over the past few years and went from an average of 6.7 to 6.3.
These numbers do not directly compare behavior but rather reflect differing social expectations and reporting styles. Recent studies also point to a “new” trend with younger adults. Many of them report having just one sexual partner. This trend marks a shift in behavior that could be influenced by changes in relationship dynamics, dating practices, or even the impact of the recent pandemic.

What factors influenced the shift?
Multiple factors can influence these changes. For example, shifts in social dynamics and evolving attitudes toward casual relationships can play a role. International data supports this study from the U.S., showing median values of 6 partners for men and 4 for women.
That being said, experts still warn that there is no right number of sexual partners. It is most important that individuals feel comfortable with their personal choices and maintain healthy relationships. Personal satisfaction, emotional well-being, and mutual respect between partners are key aspects that go beyond mere numbers.